How to build a seating plan that sparks conversation
Round tables of ten look elegant and kill conversation. Here is the seating logic that keeps every guest in a conversation.
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The science and the playbooks behind events where people leave with real connections. Written for event agencies, offsite organizers and community builders.
Round tables of ten look elegant and kill conversation. Here is the seating logic that keeps every guest in a conversation.
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affina builds compatible groups from a short questionnaire and gives every table its conversation questions. Ready in ten minutes.